Wednesday, July 10, 2013

3 Months of Kobeman

There is just so much to say about this little man. I am definitely one of those moms that could go on for days about his cuteness alone. I probably post way too many pictures of him, but I don't believe there's such a thing. I still can't get over how easy and mild this baby is; it's unreal. His smile kills me! He cracks me up sometimes when I'm feeding him and not watching him, I'll feel him stop so I'll look down and he's just staring up at me, smiles, and then gets back to business. I love that I can feel his love for me when he stares and smiles at me. I don't want him to ever grow out of that! He's SO smiley! He's starting to laugh and I have to remind myself that he's not a squeeze toy because I just want to squeeze him every time. I have to remind myself that he's not food ~cute food?~ because I always want to bite his cheeks. I'm pretty sure if the number of kisses have been counted that I alone have given him...um, a calculator would have lost track.
Aside from smiling all the time, Kobe is talking a lot...full sentences. Oh wait. He babbles, oohs, ohs, ows, and has started this silly cough when he gets excited (and sometimes when he's tired/hungry). He loves being naked, or even just in his diaper. He gets so excited and kicks his legs like a madman. He wants things in his mouth. He is starting to grab things, mostly with his thumbs and index fingers. He can kind of get things to his mouth but it's a work in progress. He's good at getting cloth in his mouth but the harder objects are a little more difficult. He's super slobbery. He's starting to give kisses (open-mouthed and slobbery, of course). He sleeps like a champ. We've been starting his bedtime routine: feed on one boob, bath time, feed on the other boob, and he's out...usually around 9pm and he'll sleep until about 5am. I know, how the heck did we get so lucky?! This is all until we start bragging about him and then he'll throw me a curve ball and wake up at like 3am. I just started going back to work; nights and weekends. I haven't been able to pump a lot so I bought some formula to supplement a little. He hates it! So far it has screwed him up on the bottle. Yesterday was my first shift back, and he cried the whole time and wouldn't take the bottle of just breast milk. So frustrating. I guess he'll just have to cry it out until he's starving enough to take a bottle. Somehow I'll pump enough too, I guess.
Kobe got to travel to California...via car. It was a last minute trip. I brought my good friend, Sunnie for sanity (and because I like her). She was awesome, because the 13 hours it takes without a baby took us almost 18 hours, and he screamed the last 6 of those. And she still wanted to hold him. We had a nice, relaxing time. I didn't plan anything. We just hung out in the pool, ate a lot of crap, sat around, and did some shopping. My parents sold there house (they've lived in since 2001), so I had to say goodbye to the house. Mostly just weird.
Lane played in Spokane Hoopfest with his tournament buddies. He's been playing in 3on3 tournaments all over Washington with these guys for a while and they usually place 1st or 2nd. They got 2nd in their division! That's pretty impressive. Hoopfest is a huge event: over 7,000 teams, 456 courts spanning 42 downtown city blocks. It's pretty crazy! We planned for 100degree weather and got poured on the first day, and hit 90s the second day. They played eight games, and won six of those! Good job boys!
Curt and Laurel (Lane's uncle/aunt) built a home up in Lake Roosevelt and invited us up for 4th of July weekend. We had some fun out in the sun, on the boat and wave runners. Kobe hated his life jacket but once the boat was going, he loved sitting there with the wind blowing on his face. Such a weird baby.
So June and July have been some busy travelling months. We have another trip planned with Lane's family at the end of July when Erin and Russell come up for a visit!
 
Oh yes, and I turned 25.

Monday, June 10, 2013

2 Months of Baby Bliss

Mr. Kobester is 2 months to date. He develops and changes every day. Nay...every minute! Lane and I have so much fun watching him grow. He is just the sweetest baby you'll ever meet; still so mild and happy! He is smiling more than ever and has started his cooing stage which tugs at my heart strings every time. He kills me with his cuteness! I love watching those happy blue eyes smile, his smirks and dimples, his developing giggles, his slobber lips coo and "ohh", his arms flail around and frog-legs kick like he's a little running man. He loves people. He loves life. He loves snuggling. He's going to make every child we have after him seem like a hellion. I can't wait to see what he learns to do in the next couple months...weeks...days...tomorrow. How did I get so lucky and blessed to be a mother; especially Kobe's mother? I can't imagine our lives with out this little angel. You know that frustrating feeling of holding a baby that's crying, wiggling and fussing and only stops when you hand them over to mom? Well that doesn't really happen for people very often with him, but every once in a while that's what happens and I tell you what - it is an amazing feeling to be on the other end as the mother that can be the only one to soothe that baby. (That may change as he gets older, but I love it now!) I'm sure Lane feels the same because he has been on the receiving end as well. Kobe really does love his daddy so much! He lights up when Lane talks to him and smiles at him. When Lane walks away or is talking on the other side of the room, Kobe's eyes follow him. It is SO precious!
At his 2 month checkup today his doctor said he's healthy and looks good. 75th percentile for height (23.5") and 50th percentile for weight (11lbs13oz). He was even smiling and cooing at Dr. Crawford. And then they stabbed him with some needles and he screamed. But it didn't last long! He fell asleep on the way home and then started talking to me when we got home. What a champ!
 
He loves going to watch Daddy play softball.
He loves bath time!
He loves looking at bright colors.
He loves his cousin, Tate.
He loves his mommy.
Like father, like son.
Like mother, like son.
Kobe had his baby blessing yesterday at church. Lane gave him a beautiful blessing that left me sobbing. Such a spiritual and uplifting moment. The other wonderful men that were able to stand in on it were Popo (Lane's grandpa), Epop (my dad), Papa (Lane's dad), Uncle Blake (Lane's brother), Uncles Phil and Curt (Lane's uncles), Briggs (Lane's cousin), Bishop Buchannan, and Josh Potter (friend). Kobe's blessing followed Tate's baby blessing given by Blake. It was so neat to be able to do them on the same day! Love those babies to pieces! We had a lot of family and friends that were able to come. I am so happy my parents were able to make it last minute. Sunnie and Henry were able to come. We're so blessed with the friends and family we have and all their support.
 
Kobe's blessing day, June 9th, 2013
Daddy's blessing day June 5th, 1983
Mommy's blessing day August 7th, 1988
Oma & Epop
Holding hands with Epop
Blessing day with cousin, Tate
Happy parents.
Proud brothers.
ps.
Lane turned the big 30! I had all these fun ideas that involved surprise parties with arranging for his old roommates to come from out of town, sumo wrestling suits, yummy food, sweet and creative presents, etc...and then Kobe was born. And my brain, money and time went elsewhere. So Lane got some bacon-flavored bbq sauce that I found at Ross and a card.
I did throw a last minute surprise get-together nacho party with family and a few of his friends. He likes nachos. And he likes his family and friends. He says he doesn't care about birthdays but I still feel bad that I didn't do much for his 30th. That's a big milestone.

Saturday, May 11, 2013

One Month

He's already a month. Partly, it feels like so long ago that my water broke and I went into the hospital feeling like, "Geez, I'm going to be laying here forever...he's never going to come!" And it feels like so long ago that my family was here meeting him. And I feel like I've already spent hours and hours and hours nursing (ya, I know...I have hours and hours and hours to go). But at the same time, that month flew by! Kobe is getting so big! He's not chubbing up so much as turning into a long twig. He feels so long, and his head feels bigger. Lane stepped on the scale with him the other day and without, and the difference was about 9lbs3oz. He's basically grown out of newborn clothes, and fits best in 0-3 months; right on track. However, I don't even bother with pants in any size- one, because we are constantly changing his diapers so what's the point? And two, he fits them length-wise but looks like a little thug because they're so wide on him. He is still just such a happy, relaxed baby. It's almost humorous how he just lays there and stares. He's starting to smile a lot more, and I can see a laugh forming because he's starting to get excited when we talk to him, and also after he gets the boob. His eyes are a beautiful blue and keep getting lighter. He has 3 dimples- two cheek, one chin. We just love him so much, and it's more and more every day. The novelty has not worn off, and I don't think it ever will. It's almost an argument to decide who gets to hold him still. Lane is such an amazing dad. He is the softy though...Whenever Kobe makes a peep, Lane picks him up or checks on him (except for the night shifts when I get him). Whenever Kobe spits up, Lane asks him if he's ok. My thoughts are, "Babies cry. Let him cry it out. Babies spit up. He's fine." Don't worry, I give him plenty of love and nurturing. I'm obsessed with him. I just love that he loves him so much. This is the first year I get to celebrate mother's day and I feel so blessed with such an incredible baby, and a husband who takes care of us both. My Heavenly Father has trusted me to be Kobe's mother and there is no greater, more terrifying feeling. I wouldn't trade being a mom for anything in the world!

 
Photobucket

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Kobe's First 3 Weeks

We have survived three weeks of being parents. Our little monkey is absolutely the best baby in the world (no bias of course). He is so mild and sweet and has the best facial expressions. I am in the process of collecting those expressions, but I get distracted with just staring at him rather than grabbing the camera; so it's a slow process.
 
We had an eventful three weeks, that's for sure. The first week was a whirlwind so I lack in details. I do remember all the cracks/bleeding/blistering with nursing! Oma and Epop got to come up for a week a couple days after he was born, and that was the week when I wouldn't let myself sleep during the day because I wanted to spend as much time as I could with my parents (bad idea, but I survived). We really enjoyed their company and I loved watching their love for their grandson grow so quickly in the time they were here. Even when they were here we had a lot of wonderful visitors and meals brought to us. My mom spoiled us too with groceries, cleaning and mommy stuff. I wish even more now that we lived closer to them! Kobe smiled at Oma and Epop first and I didn't believe it was a "more than just gas" smile until I saw it the next day. I have yet to capture it on camera, but it is so dang cute!
My mom and Britt arranged last minute for her and Reagan to come up. Mimi decided even more last minute to join them! I was so excited for them all to meet Kobe, and especially to meet my niece! They got in really late Wednesday night, so we quickly snapped a picture of the cousins next to each other and went to sleep. Yep, those kids are 19 days apart!
Thursday we spent half the day feeding/changing/passing babies.
Then the girls went and got pedicures and then got the boys to go eat at Country Boys. My time with everyone got shortened even more when we got home. I went to get out of the car that night and my back felt like it gave out. I slowly made it upstairs and fed Kobe, but when I went to get up to go to bed, I physically could not stand up or walk. Lane came to help me, thinking I would use him as a crutch but I basically collapsed and he had to carry me to bed. It felt like the Sciatica I had on the right side, but multiplied by 100 on the left side. I had to crawl to the bathroom in the middle of the night, and Lane had to bring Kobe to me to feed him. I was still in pain the next morning- my last day with everyone, and the day Kobe was getting snipped- so Lane called my doctor to see if I could come in and have him check on things. Luckily they were open enough to have me come in within an hour. So Lane took Kobe to his appointment, and my dad carried/wheeled me out on the office chair  to the car so my mom could take me to the clinic. I hated feeling so helpless! They checked my blood and urine, and my blood count was normal. After discussing things with my doctor he tried to set me up to go see a neurologist; meanwhile Lane brought Kobe to me to feed him again. He was a trooper with his procedure- a little more fussy but he was still good. They couldn't get me into the neurologist, but my doctor wanted to make sure it wasn't a herniated disc so they sent us over to the ER to run some more tests. This was my first experience at the ER...basically I discovered at 6 hours that unless you're dying, you do a lot of waiting around there. They hooked me up to an IV (because those are my favorite) of antibiotics because they got my urine analysis in and it looked contaminated, so they were thinking kidney infection along with a pinched nerve. So then there was more waiting. Lane hadn't eaten...he was exhausted and overwhelmed trying to take care of poor little Kobe and his wife. After I was able to feed Kobe again, Lane took him home and my dad came. They did a catheter urine sample to run another test, and finally got those results in and everything was fine. Their conclusion was that I had an inflamed disc that was pinching a nerve and they just gave me some more pain meds to take for the next week. So I finally got to go home and spend the rest of the evening after a wasted day with my family (so frustrating!). My mom made us a delicious meal and we took pictures and played pass the babies again. I am so grateful they were all able to come, even if I didn't get to spend very much time with them. I am in love with my niece! It's so fun being aunts/moms with my sister. I can't wait for Kobe to meet his uncles!
Here are some more of Kobe's visitors the first three weeks.
Kobe also had his first day of church at 11 days old.
Another event that happened in Kobe's first three weeks was meeting another new cousin, Tate who was born 13 days after him! They are going to be the best of friends (or worst enemies). I just love all these sweet babies!
Kobe loves sucking...on anything...and he's good at it. Too good.
But he's just perfect, and I can't believe I get to be his mom. He brings us so much joy. I love seeing the happiness in Lane's eyes as he looks at his son, and watching the interaction between them. He is already so proud of him and I am so excited for our little family.
Photobucket